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Q: Our pastor and deacon say that we are all saints, right now, in the flesh. Is this true?

A: Dear Parishioner, A Saint is technically someone who is in Heaven. You and I are not there yet. A better way of saying what the priest said is: “We are saints in the making!” We are all called to be Saints, but that day comes when we make it to Heaven. Keep your eyes on Christ and stay faithful to prayer and the Sacraments and one day, you will be a saint! Yet, Biblically Christians are called “Saints” by St. Paul and in the Acts of the Apostles. It is helpful to know that the Greek word for Saint is “hagios” which means to “to be set apart for a holy purpose…” All of us our set aside to become “perfect” through Christ. Once again we are Sinners becoming saints by our fidelity to Christ and His Holy Church.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Can a non practicing Catholic receive the anointing of the sick without returning to the faith or receiving the sacrament of reconciliation first? For that matter, can someone of another faith receive the anointing of the sick from a Catholic priest?

A: Dear Parishioner, A person who desires to receive the Sacrament of the anointing of the sick must be a baptized Catholic and at least in the remote danger of death. A priest may, in the danger of death, give a person who is baptized the sacrament of Confirmation, and hear their confession if they desire to receive the sacraments before they die. If they are not baptized the priest may baptize them and then give them the sacrament of Confirmation, Anointing of the Sick, and Viaticum (Holy Communion). The person must promise ,if they recover, to be catechized in the faith and willing to break with any serious sin and live a Catholic life, at that point of receiving the Sacraments.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry, what do you suggest when we are in the adoration chapel trying to pray and sometimes trying to listen to what God may be telling us but people are talking right outside the door or in the main part of church. We can't close the door because there is a sign saying not to close it. I find it very difficult to concentrate and have left a number of times because of this.

A: Dear Parishioner, There a couple ways you can deal with this issue:
1) Politely address the person who is talking and remind them that God's house is a place of prayer and silence.
2) There are times where people are working in the Church (e.g. The cleaning company), in this situations close the door of the chapel. Anyone can close that door while praying.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: What is the reasoning behind changing the Reconciliation room? It would really be helpful to parishioners if explanations could be given when changes are made.....no more face to face Confession, kneeler in front of altar, Latin in the Mass, etc.

A: Dear Parishioner, in the back confessional (which was recently modified) close to 90% of the parishioners kneel behind the screen for confession. The kneeler was wobbly and on a few occasions people almost fell over and crushed the priest. That is the "practical reason" for the change. The spiritual reason for the change is that the screen makes confession more supernatural, so that the penitent can focus on being "brutally sincere" with confessing their sins to Jesus without worrying which priest is hearing the confession. It also creates an atmosphere for the priest to focus on the soul coming into to be relieved of their sins, and pray better without distractions for each soul is to be treated with love and respect. Jesus told St. Faustina:
Every time you go to confession, immerse yourself entirely in My mercy, with great trust, so that I may pour the bounty of My grace upon your soul. When you approach the confessional, know this, that I Myself am waiting there for you. I am only hidden by the priest, but I Myself act in your soul.

If there is ever a time you want to speak with any of the priests for spiritual direction or counseling do not hesitate to call the office to set up an appointment.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Fr Larry, at what exact moment during the Eucharistic prayer does the bread and wine transform into Jesus body and blood?

A: Dear Parishioner, every mass is a miracle! The bread becomes the body of Christ when the words of consecration complete the sentence, i.e., when the object "body" (modified by the adjective "my") completes the subject "This" and the verb or predicate, "is." Once the thought is articulated: "This is my body," the change takes place. The same goes for the wine becoming his blood.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Does God call Men with same sex attraction to the Priesthood? It seems to me that since the Catechism of the Catholic Church explicitly states "homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered." It would seem that those men would not be good candidates for the Priesthood, especially in light of the most recent Vatican Scandal concerning drugs and homosexual acts with one of it's Vatican Priest to past sexual abuses of Priest in the Church. Why don't more Cardinals, Bishops and Priest speak out against having Priest with same sex attraction removed from the Priesthood if it is known that they have a same sex attraction or are actively engaging in homosexual behavior ? It is only causing more scandal within the church. It is hard to evangelize and preach the beauty of Catholicism when all Non- Catholics want to do is bring up the Priest sex abuse (which mostly deals with boys). Thank you Fr. Larry for being so open with your parishioners and God Bless you!

A: Dear Parishioner, Thank you for your question. The Vatican did indeed speak out on this 2005. In a document from the Vatican it states:
“If a candidate practices homosexuality or presents deep-seated homosexual tendencies, his spiritual director as well as his confessor has the duty to dissuade him in conscience from proceeding towards ordination.”

I know that our Archdiocese abides by this with our current administration.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: If God forgives all sin , for people who are gay does he forgive the sin of being gay and what about if they still live in a gay lifestyle they are living or do they just continue to sin everyday and forgiven everyday?

A: Dear parishioner, first off we need to distinguish between someone who has same-sex attractions versus someone who is living a homosexual lifestyle. Someone who is suffering with same-sex attractions but not living that lifestyle is not necessarily sinning. However, the church is clear as well as Sacred Scripture that homosexual acts are gravely sinful. The key word is repentance. Anyone who acknowledges their sin and asks for forgiveness from Jesus with the intention of turning away from this lifestyle will be forgiven for that sin. Ordinarily a person must ask for forgiveness in the sacrament of reconciliation. A person who intends to continue living a sinful lifestyle is not sorry for their sin and therefore would not be forgiven for that sin. Mercy is given to those who ask for it. Here is a good video that explains how the Catholic Church is both truthful and charitable on this matter.
http://www.blackstonefilms.co/thethirdway/

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Is missing the mass fast and receiving the Eucharist a mortal sin?

A: Dear Parishioner, Thank you for your concern and desire to receive the Blessed Sacrament with love and devotion. Many people would not even think of asking the question that you are asking.

As you know Canon Law states:

Can. 919 §1. A person who is to receive the Most Holy Eucharist is to abstain for at least one hour before holy communion from any food and drink, except for only water and medicine.

The Baltimore Catechism says the following:

902. What should a person do who, through forgetfulness or any other cause, has broken the fast necessary for Holy Communion?
A. A person who through forgetfulness or any other cause has broken the fast necessary for Holy Communion,
should again fast and receive Holy Communion the following morning if possible, without returning to confession. It is not a sin to break one's fast, but it would be a mortal sin to receive Holy Communion after knowingly breaking the fast necessary for it.

There is a difference between "knowingly" breaking fast and "forgetting" about the fast.

Remember for Action to be a Mortal sin there must be 3 conditions:
a) Grave Matter
b) Full knowledge
c) Full consent of the will

If there was all three conditions it would be a mortal sin...if would most likely be a venial sin if a sin at all if someone just forgot.

Hope this helps!
Fr. Larry
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Q: Fr Larry, what does it mean to unite your suffering to the cross and how do you do it?

A: Dear Parishioner, here is an article written by a Catholic mom that answers this question quite well. http://catholicmom.com/2013/03/22/how-do-you-offer-it-up/
Peace!
Fr. Larry
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Q: My friend's son and daughter-in-law are non-practicing Catholics. They are about to have a baby. I would like to talk to them about baptizing the baby. Would it be OK for a priest to baptize a baby of non-practicing Catholics?

A: Dear Parishioner, Canon law states that a baby can be baptized if there is a reasonable chance that the baby will be raised in the faith. If the parents are willing to come back to the faith. Most times they reconnect! Have them call me.
In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Are there any financial needs left for the Steubenville Youth Conference? If so, how can we donate?

A: Dear Parishioner, we are looking for donations to help cover the cost of transportation. The remaining balance for the bus is approximately $1300. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you for concern for the youth and your willingness to help!Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry, at church this past Sunday, you were on the alter with your back to the congregation. What is the significance of doing this? Unfortunately for me, I wear hearing aids and I found it difficult to follow the mass when I could not see you talking.

A: Dear Parishioner, Once a month I celebrate the Mass "ad Orientum" which means "to the east". The head of Sacred Liturgy in Rome has asked that priests at times face the east when praying the Mass. The spiritual reason for this is that the priest is offering the Mass in Christ's name and in His Person, in persona Christi, to God the Father and is leading his people in adoration and worship. He is facing east, the rising sun, which is symbolic of the 'New Jerusalem' and he is leading his flock as the Good Shepherd does.
In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father, I use holy water numerous times every day. Can you elaborate on its usage please?

A: Dear parishioner, Holy Water is a sacramental that reminds us of our baptism, yet it is a strong weapon against demons. Please read this article:https://www.catholiccompany.com/getfed/8-ways-to-use-holy-water/
Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father: What are we to believe regarding the physical impossibility for someone to be crucified by nailing through the palms. Science and now even forensic evidence has revealed that nails were driven through the radius and ulna bones in the wrist in order to support the weight of a body. In the Gospels, we see that Thomas ran his hands through the wounds in Christ's hands. And then we have those saints who suffered the stigmata--always hands, not wrists.

A: Dear Parishioner, here is a good article written by a first from the Arlington Diocese which adequately answers your question:

http://www.catholicherald.com/Faith/Nailed_through_wrists_or_hands_/
In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: I was at Latin Mass this morning the host fell from my tongue I reach to get it put it in my mouth and was told the priest should have done that I should have let him do that I was mortified is that a sin?

A: Dear Parishioner, I am sorry that you experienced the Eucharist drop on the floor. It is a mortifying experience. It was not a sin for you to pick up the Eucharist and consume our Lord because your intention was to safeguard the Blessed Sacrament. However, if this were ever happen again the priest ordinarily picks up the Sacred Host if our Lord was accidentally dropped. Thank you for your love for the Blessed Sacrament!
Fr. Larry
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Q: Hi Father, while doing genealogy I discovered that my Grandmother's side of the family were secret Jews. May Masses be offered for the repose of the soul of non-Christians? I looked on-line and got conflicting answers.

A: Dear Parishioner, the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass can be offered for any deceased soul. May they Rest in Peace!
Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Hi Father, you referenced a book today at Mass, The Gift of Silence, I think it was. Who is the author?

A: "The Power of Silence" by Cardinal Robert Sarah
Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father, my daughter wants to marry outside the church. She is marrying a non-Catholic boy. Should we attend the wedding, which will be celebrated at a park?

A: Dear Parishioner, could you call me so I can discuss ways to convince your daughter to get married in the Church?
In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Fr. Larry, although initially caught off guard by their introductions, I have been enjoying the use of the Latin prayers/responses of late, such as Kyrie Eleison, Sanctus, and Mysterium Fidei, and have been learning them over this Lent. I just read today that these are typically only used during Lent. Should I expect a return to the English versions after Easter?

A: Dear Parishioner, The Vatican documents encourage us to pray parts of the Mass in Latin. Once a month we will have a Sunday Mass that has more chants and Latin responses.

Have a blessed Holy Week!
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry, I understand the "Saints" can pray for us. Can our relatives in purgatory pray for us? If our relatives get to heaven, are they then "Saints" who can pray for us?

A: Dear Parishioner, the souls in Purgatory, although they cannot pray for their own release from Purgatory, they can indeed pray for us here on earth. St. John Vianney said that he got the quickest answers to prayers when he asked the Holy Souls in Purgatory to pray for his intentions. All saints in Heaven, whether officially canonized or not, are strong intercessors for us in Heaven.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Fr. Larry, If a friend betrays you and also in an illegal way is it acceptable to forgive that person but no longer want to be friends with that person. Is this true forgiveness? Do I have to remain friends with that person and act like nothing ever happened? I have forgiven this person from my heart but I no longer want her around me. I also don't feel safe around her. I only want to do what Jesus would have me do.

A: Dear Parishioner, Here is a great in depth article to bring to prayer that will help you understand what is Jesus' teaching on forgiveness. Please reply if this not answer your question. https://www.catholic.com/magazine/print-edition/the-limits-of-forgiveness

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father: There appears to be a discrepancy in how Catholics interpret scripture. Many parts, especially the OT, are full of phrases and such that we don't take literally. However, a central tenet of what separates us from protestants is our literal interpretation of John 6. How do square this?

A: Dear parishioner, the answer to this question is too long to write out. I have attached a good article that answers this question:http://www.catholicculture.org/commentary/articles.cfm?id=489

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry, How can an Angel be a Saint?

A: Dear Parishioner, once in heaven — saint or angel — one is automatically holy. It can be confusing, but look at it this way: Angels are spirits in heaven, and saints are human beings in heaven. Angels can be called “saint” (as in the case of St. Michael the Archangel) as a sign of respect and honor.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Fr Larry, How do you do a spiritual communion? And exactly what is it?

A: Dear Parishioner, a spiritual communion is a traditional prayer we pray when we want to receive communion but cannot do physically. Attached is a link to an article with the Spiritual Communion prayer and an explanation of it. http://www.ourcatholicprayers.com/spiritual-communion.html

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Hi Fr Larry, in your homily you talked about suffering and we should unite our suffering with Jesus with joy. Does that mean we are supposed to be happy when we're suffering? Sometimes it's difficult to be happy when your suffering through something really serious.

A: Dear Parishioner, It is a great grace and blessing to be able to accept suffering with serenity and peace. Our faith teaches us that if we prayerfully unite our sufferings to Jesus it becomes a means of sanctification (of becoming holy). This does not mean that a person is "happy" but rather that a person can find joy in suffering. Archbishop Sheen used to say: "Don't waste your suffering!" It is always hard to be upbeat while one is experiencing suffering. Yet, our faith in Jesus' death and resurrection gives suffering meaning.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Fr Larry, Why do you make the sign of the cross with Jesus in the monstrance at the end of Adoration? Are we supposed to make the sign of the cross on ourselves at the same time? Some people do it slowly with you, some do it 3 times, and others do it quickly one time. Which is correct?

A: Dear Parishioner, The blessing with the monstrance is called Benediction. It is Jesus blessing you directly. If you notice the priest covers his hands with a veil called the humeral veil. This veil is used so that the priest's hands are not blessing the people but it is Christ Himself in the Eucharist blessing those attending the benediction. It is sufficient to just make one sign of the cross as the blessing is happening.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father--St Patrick's Day falls on a Friday this Lent. Is there an exception to eat meat (corned beef) on that day?

A: Dear Parishioner, the Cardinal Archbishop of Washington has granted a Dispensation so you may eat meat on the Feast of St. Patrick. You should however consider abstaining from meat the following day.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry: During the consecration when you hold up the host and then the wine, I've noticed that some people bow their head when the altar server rings the bells, and some people look up at you elevating them. What are we supposed to be doing at that point?

A: Dear Parishioner, One should be focused on adoring our Lord at the moment of consecration. An old tradition is to pray under your breath or in your mind the words "My Lord and my God!" These are the words that St. Thomas when he touched the spear wound of Christ after his resurrection.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry, why do some Priests keep their index fingers touching their thumbs during Consecration and after and some do not. What does this mean?

A: Dear Parishioner, it is not required for priests to keep their thumbs and index fingers together after the consecration. I always have done so since these are the fingers that touch the Blessed Sacrament. I do so, in the case that any fragments of the Blessed Sacrament were on these fingers they would be safe from falling on the ground. I have done this intuitively. In the Extraordinary Form of the Mass (prior to 1962) it was required that "the priest holds the thumb and index finger together from the Consecration to the ablutions, to avoid touching any other object or surface and dislodging minute particles of the Blessed Sacrament that might adhere to those fingers." Basically confirming what I have always believed.
In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Hi Father. Sometimes I see people praying the rosary during Mass. Is that appropriate?

A: Dear Parishioner, when the Mass was in Latin it was very common to see people praying the Rosary during Mass. The mind of the Church, however, is that the laity ought to pray the Mass and to follow the readings and prayers of the priest while Mass is being celebrated.

Here is a good answer I found on EWTN:
http://www.ewtn.com/v/experts/showmessage.asp?number=456544

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Hi Father, (This is a question that my teenage son asked me and I am not sure how to answer it.)

"Does the church teach that it is permissible to believe in evolution, and if so, does that mean that one generation was made up of monkeys with no souls and then the next was made up of humans with souls? "

A: Dear Parishioner, Pius Xii in a letter named "Humani Generis" (Of Human Generation) taught that we can believe theories of evolution, as long as we also hold that we are all descendants of two first parents that were created by God. So, if evolutionary theory is true, God made monkeys into rational human beings with an immortal soul that we know to be our first parents: Adam and Eve. God created them into the first humans.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry-- 2016 was the Year of Mercy. What is 2017? Thanks.

A: Dear Parishioner, I believe that the Holy Father is focusing on the message of Fatima since it is the 100 year Anniversary this year.

Peace!
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry--Did Christ "embrace" his suffering or "endure" it? What do we do with our suffering?"

A: Dear Parishioner, Jesus both embraced and endured suffering as a loving holocaust for our sins. If we embrace suffering and endure it willingly it becomes a powerful prayer that can be offered to God as a sacrifice that purifies our souls from the effects of our confessed sins and can help those who do not pray for themselves.
In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry -For the past several months I have had a yearning in my soul- I believe it is the Holy Spirit - to learn more about the Blessed Virgin Mary. It started out as a faint whisper but since last week it has become a very strong feeling.

Last week I attended the Feast of the Immaculate Conception Mass at Mt. Carmel you presided over. The homily you gave about Mary's presence during the Mass, in our lives, and through our prayers was beautiful - even overwhelming. It has finally caused me to act to the voice whispering in soul.

Are there any books you recommend about Mary to help me learn more about her? Either books directly about her or books about Saints that were intimately inspired by her? I prayer the rosary regularly. Are there any other prayers devoted to Mary you recommend?

Thank You.

A: Dear Parishioner, On the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe I would suggest 2 books:"The Glories of Mary" by St. Alfonsus Liguori and "The Secret of the Rosary" by St. Louis de Montfort. There are many great books on our Lady, but these are two classics.
I would suggest praying the Angelus at noon, and praying the Memorare prayer everyday.
Another devotion that has helped me and many people is the Total Consecration to Mary. Here is a version by Fr. Gaitley with daily meditations and prayers:
https://www.amazon.com/Days-Morning-Glory-Do-Yourself/dp/1596142448
Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Fr. Larry, I've always heard that during Lent we should pray the Sorrowful mysteries of the Rosary every day and was recently told that during Advent we should say only the Joyful mysteries. Is this true? Is it ok to follow the regular schedule of mysteries during these times?

A: Dear parishioner, you may pray the Rosary in the normal pattern. The only option that is different during the season of Advent and Christmas is that the Joyful mysteries may be prayed on Sunday instead of the Glorious Mysteries. I have attached a website that connects the mysteries to the liturgical seasons. Happy Advent!

http://www.easterbrooks.com/personal/calendar/rosary.html

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry--My husband has been having strong temptations About getting a vasectomy. He knows understands and is aware of the church teachings. He struggles having to with stain especially during the times when his work travel interferes with "go time". He knows I am against it and still wants to go forward with it. My question is if he does go through with this, as a wife, how am I supposed to respond? Am I able to be with him without my self entering into grave sin?

A: Dear Parishioner, I understand your concern and I pray that your husband reconsiders this course of action. I ask a question to pray on. Are you open to having another child? Natural Family Planning is to open oneself to God's will. Is there a serious reason why you and him are closed to having another child? Having a vasectomy will deeply wound your intimacy with each other because it takes God out of the most intimate part of your marriage. I think that a conversation with me about overcoming the fear of God's plan for you and your husband would be very helpful and would encourage your husband from doing something that will seriously offend God and put up an wall between you and him. Please talk to the three of us discussing how to overcome fears and challenges with staying faithful to God's plan for your marriage. I think that a refresher on Gods' teaching on vasectomies would be helpful:
"the regulation of birth represents one of the aspects of responsible fatherhood and motherhood. Legitimate intentions on the part of spouses do not justify recourse to morally unacceptable means (for example, direct sterilization or contraception). (Catechism of the Catholic Church 2399). If he does do this he is committing a mortal sin and cuts himself off from God's graces.

I think the conversation should shift to why are we so afraid of being open to life? St. Josemaria says: "Underneath the arm of every baby is a loaf of bread." In other words, God will provide for a new child if God will sit.

St. Paul says: "For no one hates his own flesh but rather nourishes and cherishes it, even as Christ loves his Church..." I pray that the two of you will consider coming to see me and that your husband will have the courage not to be a coward and will with God's grace not go through with this surgery. If he decides to go through with it anyway, do not drive him to or from the procedure—our Catholic duty is not to cooperate with evil. He has free will and he will have to answer for it. If you do not materially cooperate its not your sin.

I will pray for you both.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Fr Swink: I feel like life gets too hard. Been married for 30+ years. My spouse drags me down. We have done marriage counseling with a priest, it helped. But depression has been taking over. I am invisible until there is a need for me by them. I pray. But the depression seems stronger. I don't want to end the marriage but do not know what else to do. Keeping this anonymous and not reaching out in person will prevent direct help from a priest, but hoping you will pray for us and other couples like us. Maybe God will hear my plea and send lasting help for my spouses depression and my sanity.

A: Dear Parishioner, Have courage! I would encourage you to pray the Novena to St. Rita: http://stillerrita.wixsite.com/saint-rita-of-cascia/novena-c12rs

Also, I would encourage to come and speak to either myself or Fr. Sam. I will remember you in Adoration prayers today.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry, Evangelical churches give "altar calls" inviting people to accept Jesus in their lives. I've never heard that happen in the Catholic Church. Any reason why?

A: Dear parishioner, we have an "altar call" which is the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Many non-Catholic churches have "repentance rituals" because they did away with one of the greatest gifts Jesus gave us which is the Sacrament of Confession.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Is it wrong to pray often for something so frivolous as the outcome of a sporting event--whether it be professional, college, or even one of your children's games?

A: Dear Parishioner, we may pray for anything but God answers our prayers according to what is best for our eternal soul. The Catechism of the Catholic Church challenges us to search our hearts about what we are praying for. It says:
2737 "You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions."26If we ask with a divided heart, we are "adulterers";27 God cannot answer us, for he desires our well-being, our life. "Or do you suppose that it is in vain that the scripture says, 'He yearns jealously over the spirit which he has made to dwell in us?'"28 That our God is "jealous" for us is the sign of how true his love is. If we enter into the desire of his Spirit, we shall be heard.
If one's victory on the field will help that boy or girl get closer to Heaven, God will answer accordingly. I have experienced this many times on the playing field. I realized after the game if I was playing for his glory and not mine my prayers are answered in the affirmative, and likewise if it is really about my ego, God sometimes simply says no! We can pray for anything but God answers in the manner that is best for our spiritual success rather than physical success.
In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father, when does using NFP to not have a child become sinful?

A: Dear Parishioner,

Technically speaking using NFP (Natural Family Planning) is abstaining from sexual relations during the fertile period is not a sin since it is not abusing the sexual act. However the question ought to be asked in prayer why a couple would not want more children. Humanae Vitae #10 gives circumstances when NFP would be used:
"With regard to physical, economic, psychological and social conditions, responsible parenthood is exercised by those who prudently and generously decide to have more children, and by those who, for serious reasons and with due respect to moral precepts, decide not to have additional children for either a certain or an indefinite period of time
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Q: Father Larry:

What do you suggest as the most charitable response to the question "so, are you done having kids now?" when you follow the Church's teaching against contraception? I have a larger than average family and get this a lot, even from other Catholics, and don't want to be rude even though I find the question to be rude. Thanks

A: Dear Parishioner,

I would simply smile and say "My children are such a blessing and we are open to God's will!"

Peace!
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry:

Is there something I'm doing wrong about handing my life over to Jesus sincerely and willingly but still not finding happiness?

A: Dear Parishioner,

I would encourage you to speak with either Father Sam or me for spiritual direction.

In Christ,
Father Larry
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Q: Dear Fr Larry, Wednesday night during the mission we were told to place our hands on you. I could not hear why he said to do that. What was the reason?

A: Dear Parishioner,

What was done on Wednesday night is a prayer experience that is done at Marriage Encounter Retreats (which Fr. Bill Gaffney has been doing for many years). The hands of a priest are so important, as John read in the prayer while you all came up. At ordination the bishop consecrates the hands of the priest with chrism oil, because they are what touch the body and blood of Jesus during the consecration of the Holy Eucharist; they bless people, absolve their sins, and anoint those who are dying.

I attached a poem written about the hands of the priest:

We need them in life's early morning,
We need them again at its close;
We feel their warm clasp of true friendship,
We seek it while tasting life's woes.
When we come to this world we are sinful,
The greatest as well as the least.
And the hands that make us pure as angels
Are the beautiful hands of a priest.
At the altar each day we behold them,
And the hands of a king on his throne
Are not equal to them in their greatness
Their dignity stands alone.
For there in the stillness of morning
Ere the sun has emerged from the east,
There God rests between the pure fingers
Of the beautiful hands of a priest.
When we are tempted and wander
To pathways of shame and sin
'Tis the hand of a priest that absolve us.
Not once but again and again.
And when we are taking life's partner
Other hands may prepare us a feast
But the hands that will bless and unite us,
Are the beautiful hands of a priest.
God bless them and keep them all holy,
For the Host which their fingers caress,
What can a poor sinner do better
Than to ask Him who chose them to bless
When the death dews on our lids are falling,
May our courage and strength be increased
By seeing raised o'er us in blessing
The beautiful hands of a priest.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry: Is there a schedule for when the Deacon will give the homily for Sunday masses? It used to be the 4th Sunday (during the Children's mass) of the month. Is there a new schedule? Thank You!

A: Dear Parishioner, generally, the Deacons preach on the first weekend of the month.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Recently, the Sacred Heart Facebook page had a graphic that said that we should name our guardian angel and then ask for his help. I have read in different places that we aren't supposed to name our guardian angel. Are we or are we not supposed to name them? Also, are all guardian angels male? Thank you.

A: Dear Parishioner, I named my guardian angel "Joy" when I was about 10 years old. I came to find out recently, (within the last 2 years), that traditionally it has been discouraged to call on Angels by name unless they have been identified by name as Holy Angels in Scripture. The reason that the Church is advising this is because of the fear of naming a falling spirit...a.k.a. a demon. On the other, hand, the argument has been made that this warning does not apply to Guardian Angels, since we know that our Guardian Angel is good, and giving it a holy name would probably be okay.
Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry, are Catholic priests allowed to marry? I have always believed they were not allowed, however some ccd classes are saying that priests can get married. Thank you!

A: Dear Parishioner: Currently there are around 100 married Catholic priests in the United States. In fact, the priest who head's the Archdiocese of Washington's Office of Family Life, Father Rick Kramer, is married. In the Western Rite, a.k.a. the Roman Catholic Church, priests take the promise of celibacy which means a solemn promise not to get married for the sake of the Church. There are and have been circumstances where men, who were non -Catholic ministers or priests in say the Anglican Church were given a special dispensation to become Roman Catholic priests even though they were married. They, however, cannot get remarried if there wife passes by death, and to remain celibate.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father: In the Nicene Creed, we say "...and rose again..." The implication being that Christ rose a second time. Please explain.

A: Dear parishioner, Here is a great answer to that question:

http://www.catholic.com/quickquestions/in-the-apostles-creed-it-says-jesus-rose-twice-how-is-this-possible

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Fr. Larry: Why is it said at the Catholic parish that I attend that Jesus lost. I don't understand this. If Jesus lost does this mean that with his death he did not conquer our death to sin. If Jesus lost how do we achieve eternal salvation. Did he not win a victory by his death on the cross so that if we believe in him and follow him we will have eternal life. I don't understand what it means to say that Jesus lost.

A: Dear Parishioner, Today is the Feast Day of The Exaltation of the Cross. We teach that Jesus defeated sin and death by dying on the Cross and then Rising from the dead. I am not sure what he meant by "Jesus lost" because that seems to undermine all of Christianity. I have attached a homily by St. Andrew of Crete--it is all about how Jesus triumphed!

The cross is Christ’s glory and triumph

We are celebrating the feast of the cross which drove away darkness and brought in the light. As we keep this feast, we are lifted up with the crucified Christ, leaving behind us earth and sin so that we may gain the things above. So great and outstanding a possession is the cross that he who wins it has won a treasure. Rightly could I call this treasure the fairest of all fair things and the costliest, in fact as well as in name, for on it and through it and for its sake the riches of salvation that had been lost were restored to us.

Had there been no cross, Christ could not have been crucified. Had there been no cross, life itself could not have been nailed to the tree. And if life had not been nailed to it, there would be no streams of immortality pouring from Christ’s side, blood and water for the world’s cleansing. The legal bond of our sin would not be canceled, we should not have attained our freedom, we should not have enjoyed the fruit of the tree of life and the gates of paradise would not stand open. Had there been no cross, death would not have been trodden underfoot, nor hell despoiled.

Therefore, the cross is something wonderfully great and honorable. It is great because through the cross the many noble acts of Christ found their consummation—very many indeed, for both his miracles and his sufferings were fully rewarded with victory. The cross is honorable because it is both the sign of God’s suffering and the trophy of his victory. It stands for his suffering because on it he freely suffered unto death. But it is also his trophy because it was the means by which the devil was wounded and death conquered; the barred gates of hell were smashed, and the cross became the one common salvation of the whole world.

The cross is called Christ’s glory; it is saluted as his triumph. We recognize it as the cup he longed to drink and the climax of the sufferings he endured for our sake. As to the cross being Christ’s glory, listen to his words: Now is the Son of Man glorified, and in him God is glorified, and God will glorify him at once. And again: Father, glorify me with the glory I had with you before the world came to be. And once more: Father, glorify your name. Then a voice came from heaven: I have glorified it and I will glorify it again. Here he speaks of the glory that would accrue to him through the cross. And if you would understand that the cross is Christ’s triumph, hear what he himself also said: When I am lifted up, then I will draw all men to myself. Now you can see that the cross is Christ’s glory and triumph.

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father: With a mosque in the shadow of our church in La Plata, I was wondering if we as a parish have reached out to our Muslim brothers and sisters who live and worship in our town. I believe that communication can lead to a better understanding of our differences and perhaps help to dispel some fears that are sometimes fueled by ignorance of other faiths.

A: Dear Parishioner, I think that all of us should invite Moslems to consider Catholicism. There are many Muslims that have been converting to Catholicism. I have attached an article that was in National Catholic Register called: "Why are Millions of Moslems Converting to Christianity".

http://www.ncregister.com/daily-news/why-are-millions-of-muslims-becoming-Christian/

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father, What are the church's service position about women covering their heads with a mantilla or veil as was the custom years ago? I notice some ladies are wearing them again.

A: Dear parishioner, Prior to Vatican II women wore veils over their head during Mass. It was mandated in the old code of Canon law where it states in the 1917 code: "women, however, shall have a covered head and be modestly dressed, especially when they approach the table of the Lord."

It came from scripture where St. Paul tells women:

"5 But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head."
The reason for this is that in the ancient world a women's hair was considered sensual and immodest to be uncovered in public settings.
It is no longer obligated but permissible for a woman to wear a veil during the sacrifice of the Holy Mass. Here is a good article on the Mantila.

https://catholicismpure.wordpress.com/2014/01/15/why-women-wear-mantillas-in-church/

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father: We are always encouraged to invite fallen away Catholics back to the Church and the Sacraments. I was told by another Catholic that even though we invite them, depending upon their living arrangements, they may not even be able to receive any of the Sacraments. She said if the fallen away Catholic was married outside the Church, they would not be able to receive any including the Sacraments of Reconciliation and Holy Communion and if the spouse refused to be married in the Catholic Church, they would never be able to receive any of the Sacraments. With divorced and remarried, I know you are able to help with annulments, but what about when the spouse is not willing to go along with what needs to be done?

A: Dear Parishioner, That is a very sad situation. In my experience, however, the non-Catholic when encouraged to meet with me and discuss the situation , will in most cases, go through the annulment process because they want to do what is right for their spouse. There is a saying if you are really in love "if it's important to you it's important to me!"

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry--I would like to buy a Bible. There are many translations. The USCCB has a list of approved translations. I would like to know if you can recommend a Bible for me to buy. Thank you.

A: Dear parishioner, This article will help you: http://www.catholicbiblesblog.com/2008/09/my-top-5-catholic-bible-translations.html?m=1

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry: Please explain why the Church frowns on ashes of loved ones being kept in "urns on a mantle" or divided amongst loved ones but as an institution spreads first class relics of saints all over the world. Thank you in advance.

A: Dear Parishioner, the Church permits cremation with the understanding as the catechism states: "provided that it does not demonstrate a denial of faith in the resurrection of the body.93"

The Rite of Christian funerals states:
The cremated remains of a body should be treated with the same respect given to the human body from which they come. This includes the use of a worthy vessel to contain the ashes, the manner in which they are carried, and the care and attention to appropriate placement and transport, and the final disposition. The cremated remains should be buried in a grave or entombed in a mausoleum or columbarium. The practice of scattering cremated remains on the sea, from the air, or on the ground, or keeping cremated remains in the home of a relative or friend of the deceased are not the reverent disposition that the Church requires (cfOrder of Christian Funerals # 417).

We as Catholics are to realize that the body will last on the last day. The prescribed way of showing that reality with our faith is by burying the remains in a suitable place. Now the church also permits that relics of the saints, which are usually in Churches or chapels and not in the living room mantle. St. Thomas says:

"Now it is manifest that we should show honor to the saints of God, as being members of Christ, the children and friends of God, and our intercessors. Wherefore in memory of them, we ought to honor any relics of theirs in a fitting manner: principally their bodies, which were temples, and organs of the Holy Spirit dwelling and operating in them, and are destined to be likened to the body of Christ by the glory of the Resurrection."

Notice how they are honored and respected as "being destined...to the Glory of the Resurrection."

It really is a matter of respect for the Body and the teaching of the Resurrection of the Body and life everlasting.

Here is a good article on the topic of cremation and the Catholic Church.

http://blog.adw.org/2015/03/concerns-about-cremation-some-very-strange-practices-are-emerging/

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father: If you are a guest at someone else's home and you have a dog, that you know will bark and scratch and throw a tantrum if you leave. Sunday comes around everyone is sleeping and you are a guest, what do you do? Leave and go to mass and let the family handle the barking or be responsible about your dog and stay, is that still confession for being a sin? And why? I don't get why it would be if you are respecting someone else's home and generosity

A: Today's Gospel answers that question:
If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple...I would add dog to that list...

God comes before your guest's comfort.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father: I saw on an infertility website that GIFT (gamete intra-fallopian transfer) is acceptable with the Catholic Church. Is this true?

A: Dear Parishioner, I have attached the USCCB document on immoral and moral techniques that being used to aid in conception. It appears that the GIFT method is neither "approved" or "disapproved" at this point. It is an open theological discussion. I am going to call the National Bioethics Center to get more information. Here is the link:
http://www.usccb.org/issues-and-/marriage-and-family/natural-family-planning/resources/upload/Reproductive-Technology-Evaluation-Treatment-of-Infertility-Guidelines-for-Catholic-Couples.pdf

I went on to read the following:

"Another method, more morally controversial, is called GIFT, or Gamete Intra-Fallopian Transfer. It involves obtaining a husband's sperm following marital relations and aspirating an egg from the wife's ovary. Egg and sperm are placed in a tiny tube separated by an air bubble, and the contents of the tube are then injected into the wife's fallopian tube with the hope that fertilization will occur. Some theologians consider this to be a replacement of the marital act, and therefore immoral. Other theologians see it as assisting the marital act, and therefore permissible. Because the teaching authorities of the Church—the Pope and bishops—have not made a judgment about GIFT, Catholic couples are free to choose it or reject it depending on the guidance of their own conscience. If the teaching authority of the Church should judge the procedure to be immoral, however, GIFT should no longer be used."

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Fr Larry, If you don't feel a strong devotion to the Blessed Mother, how does one increase a devotion to her?

A: Dear Parishioner, first, ask for the grace to understand Mary's role in your spiritual life. We believe that all graces come from Jesus through Mary to us. Also, Mary is our spiritual mother and Jesus wants us to have a relationship with her. He gave us his Mother to be our mother in John 19 when he said "behold your mother." I think a book that will really help you is Hail Holy Queen by Scott Hahn. It helped me and has helped many to understand Mary's role in Salvation history and in our spiritual journey towards Heaven. Also pray at least a decade of the Rosary a day and you will draw closer to Our Lady.

Peace!
Fr. Larry
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Q: What determines whether the prayers at Mass recited by the priest are read or sung?

A: Dear Parishioner, there is a document called the General Instruction of the Roman Missal (GIRM). In it says the following: "However, in the choosing of the parts actually to be sung, preference is to be given to those that are of greater importance and especially to those which are to be sung by the Priest or the Deacon or a reader, with the people replying, or by the Priest and people together.[49]" There are certain parts of the Mass that are preferred to be sung according to our Church Fathers. The parts that are most encouraged to be sung are the following:
a. the entrance rites
-the priest's greeting and the congregation's response;
-the opening prayer.
b. in the liturgy of the word
-the gospel acclamations.
(again the Priest's greeting and congregation's response,
not the Alleluia which is listed below)
c. in the liturgy of the Eucharist
-the prayer over the gifts;
-the preface, with the opening dialogue and the Sanctus;
-the Lord's Prayer, with the invitation and embolism;
-the greeting May the peace of the Lord;
-the prayer after communion;
-the final dismissal.
Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father: I know that you must be a Catholic in good standing in order to receive the Eucharist in the Catholic Church. If there is NOT a Catholic church in the vicinity, can a Catholic go to services at a Lutheran or Episcopalian church and receive communion ?

A: Dear Parishioner, A Catholic may attend a non-Catholic service. This does not, however, fulfill the Sunday Obligation of going to Mass. A Catholic must go to a valid Eucharist, on Sunday, which would only be the Greek Orthodox Churches or the Roman Catholic Church since they have valid priests. Also, because it is not a valid Eucharist, Catholics are not to receive communion in non-Catholic services.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father: During the homily this weekend you mentioned a book about how the Saints who resisted sin. What's the name of the book?

A: The book is entitled "Saintly Solutions for Everyday Problems" by Father Joseph Esper

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father: How much is the devil responsible for things that go wrong in our lives. I know he tempts us, but how much direct power does he over us in our lives? Can he "cause" things to go wrong, i.e., illness, divorce, my car breaking down on the Wilson Bridge in a snowstorm...

A: Dear parishioner, Although the devil is real and he is very active, not all tragedies are from him and his minions. Sometimes we are to blame because of our weakness. Yet, I have attached an article from Fr. Gabrielle Amorth (the Roman exorcist) that explains how demonic activity can be spotted. Do not read right before bed!
http://www.ignatiusinsight.com/features/framorth_excerpt2_aug04.asp

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father, Is depression always medical or can it be spiritual? When does this become a sin?

Dear parishioner, Clinical depression is a huge cross that many people carry. John Paul II stated: Blessed John Paul II said that depression is always a spiritual trial: “This disease is often accompanied by an existential and spiritual crisis that leads to an inability to perceive the meaning of life.” The problem with depression (which is not a sin itself) can turn to sinful behaviors if they do not seek the Lord in prayer, and the support of family and friends as well as professional help. I have attached an article written by an author that addresses how to deal with depression in his book: A Catholic Guide to Depression is published by Sophia Institute Press (Sophiainstitute.com)
http://www.catholicherald.co.uk/news/2013/05/02/how-catholics-can-conquer-depression/

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father, about two weeks ago you mentioned at the end of your sermon a book. It was a small black covered book but I can't recall the title. would you please share the title again?

A: The name of the book is "A Time For God" by Fr. Jacques Phillipe. Here is a link from Scepter Press: https://scepterpublishers.org/products/time-for-god

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father, I was given a NIV (New International Version) Bible. I noticed in the preface that the translations were done by a long list of denominations, however, the Catholic Church was not one of them. Is this an acceptable version to use?

A: The NIV is an easier Bible to read but there are two downsides:
1) It is a Protestant translation and will translate some of the words loosely to fit Protestant theology. The example I found is:
The NIV translates the Greek word ergon and its derivatives as "work" when it reinforces Protestant doctrine but as something else (such as "deeds" or "doing") when it would serve Catholic doctrine.
The NIV renders Romans 4:2 "If, in fact, Abraham was justified by works (ergon), he had something to boast about—but not before God." This passage is used to support the Protestant doctrine of salvation by faith alone. But the NIV translates the erg- derivatives in Romans 2:6-7 differently: "God ‘will give to each person according to what he has done (erga).’ To those who by persistence in doing (ergou) good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life."
2) In order to make it an easier read sometimes the words are changed too much from the Original Language and one can lose what the author( e.g. Matthew, Mark, Luke and John) intended.

I will post some good Catholic translations..

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father: I went to confession during Mass last week. I ended up being in their for the better part of the Mass. At what point does it not count as having attended Mass?

A: Subject: Re: New Form Entry: Ask the Pastor
Dear parishioner, hear is an article that answers this question very well:
http://jimmyakin.com/2006/01/fulfilling_ones.html

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Greetings Father, Is it immoral to not vote? Can God blame us for not voting this year?

A: Dear Parishioner, this article is very helpful in answering this question https://ethikapolitika.org/2016/03/06/should-a-catholic-vote-in-this-election/

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: When we address God as the "Lord of hosts" or "God of hosts", what does the term "host" actually refer to?

A: Dear Parishioner, The name "LORD of hosts” occurs some 261 times in the Old Testament Scriptures. God is first called the “LORD of hosts” in 1 Samuel 1:3.

The word hosts is a translation of the Hebrew word sabaoth, meaning “armies”—a reference to the angelic armies of heaven. Thus, another way of saying “LORD of hosts” is “God of the armies of heaven.” It is a reference to the Angels in heaven that fight for the Lord.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father, thank you for your column in a recent bulletin on how to receive the Eucharist. I travel a lot and go to Mass at different Catholic churches. In one of those churches, someone comes to receive the Eucharist all the way down the aisle on their knees. Can you comment on that please?

A: Dear Parishioner, I have attached a section from the USCCB on postures for receiving communion:
"The General Instruction asks each country's Conference of Bishops to determine the posture to be used for the reception of Communion and the act of reverence to be made by each person as he or she receives Communion. In the United States, the body of Bishops determined that Communion should be received standing, and that a bow is the act of reverence made by those receiving. These norms may require some adjustment on the part of those who have been used to other practices, however the significance of unity in posture and gesture as a symbol of our unity as members of the one body of Christ should be the governing factor in our own actions.
Those who receive Communion may receive either in the hand or on the tongue, and the decision should be that of the individual receiving, not of the person distributing Communion. If Communion is received in the hand, the hands should first of all be clean. If one is right handed the left hand should rest upon the right. The host will then be laid in the palm of the left hand and then taken by the right hand to the mouth. If one is left-handed this is reversed. It is not appropriate to reach out with the fingers and take the host from the person distributing."
There is a balance between "unity" and the choice on how to show "reverence" at the reception of Holy Communion. There is nothing wrong with a person kneeling for Holy Communion. Pope Emeritus Benedict wrote about this and it is in a current Vatican document where I quote:
"Communion only reaches its true depth when it is supported and surrounded by adoration" [The Spirit of the Liturgy (Ignatius Press, 2000), p. 90]. For this reason, Cardinal Ratzinger maintained that “the practice of kneeling for Holy Communion has in its favor a centuries-old tradition, and it is a particularly expressive sign of adoration, completely appropriate in light of the true, real and substantial presence of Our Lord Jesus Christ under the consecrated species” [cited in the Letter "This Congregation" of the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments, 1 July 1, 2002]."
That being said, going down the aisles on one's knees (although it is a pious action) is probably very distracting and brings too much attention on the person and away from the Eucharist.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Swink: I do not know your schedule, but given the horrific shooting last night of law enforcement officers and the growing division in our country among racial lines, we need to pray. Would you be willing to offer a Mass this evening for healing? Thank you.

A: Dear Parishioner: Thank you for the suggestion. Our parish prayed for the fallen officers and their families, the City of Dallas, and for peace at our daily noon Mass today. We are currently in the planning stages of a Blue Mass with the Charles County Sheriff's Office and the Town of LaPlata Police Department. We hope to celebrate this special Mass later this month. Please stay tuned to our Parish social media and this website for details.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: It's said that saints become the patrons of certain things. How is that decided? Also who was the last Saint known to be a patron of something?

A: Saints are ultimately decided to be official “patron saints” by the Pope. Specific saints are chosen to be different patrons because they might have had a specific interest, talent, or occurrence in their life which inspires their intercession. Anyone can choose a saint to stand as their patron, although they would not be defined as such in Rome. Saint Junípero Serra would be the most recent saint to be declared a “patron”. He is the patron saint of California, Hispanic Americans, and religious vocations.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: My granddaughter and I noticed the Paschal Candle wasn't on the alter on Sunday May 22nd. Was it somewhere else in the church?

A: Dear Concerned Parishioner,
I am glad that you noticed that the Candle was missing. Do not worry though! The Paschal Candle is blessed at the beginning of the Easter Vigil and then is kept on the sanctuary for the Easter Season, and lit during the masses, until the season has ended which is on Pentecost Sunday. The Candle is then ordinarily kept behind the baptismal font (and is lit for baptisms) and is moved to the sanctuary for funerals.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Hi Father Larry, I want to start to pray the liturgy of the hours. I go to 11:30 Mass on Sundays and 12 PM Daily Mass. Do I skip the Midday (12 PM) prayer or pray it before or after the Masses?

A: The liturgy of the Hours is to be prayed at different times during the day. Daytime prayer is usually prayed in the midmorning, midday or midafternoon. I would suggest praying the liturgy of the hours for daytime prayer before or after mass.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry, When the angel Gabriel told Mary that the Holy Spirit would come upon her and that she would conceive, what was her concept of the "Holy Spirit" since as a young Jewish girl she (presumably) believed in one God with a single nature, rather than a God with a Triune nature? Thank you.

A: First, let's "clean up" your question a little before we begin. The term, "Triune nature," would imply that the Church teaches that God has three natures. It does not. We believe that God has a single nature just as the Jewish people believed. The Church has always taught that God has one nature. We speak of God as the Trinity because there are three divine Persons in one divine nature, that is, in one God.

So, the question that you are asking might be, "What was the concept of the Virgin Mary regarding the Holy Spirit since the Jews believed in one God?" This is a good question that can bear excellent fruit. Without presuming to know what our Lady thought, let me try to answer your question.

In the Old Testament God is referred to as Spirit in multiple places. Spirit is a term that signifies breath or wind, in Hebrew "ruah". For example, in the Book of Genesis, we hear that a mighty wind swept over the waters at the time of creation. Moses encounters a voice, but no form - an indication that God is not a material being. He has some semblance to a "spirit" which is encountered but not perceived by the senses. In 1Kings19:11, Elijah encounters a "silent sound," a contradiction that indicates that God is a pure spirit. When David was anointed king by Samuel (1 Sam 16:13), it says that "the Spirit of the Lord rushed upon David." So, Mary would probably have found nothing unusual in God being referred to as the Holy Spirit" (Luke 1:35).

There are Old Testament texts which indicate, but do not reveal explicitly, that there is a plurality of some sort in God. Notice in the creation account, "Then God said: Let us make human beings in our image, after our likeness." (Gen 1:26)" At the tower of Babel, we hear God say, "Come, let us go down and there confuse their language, so that no one will understand the speech of another." (Gen 11:7) Or at the calling of Isaiah, "Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send? Who will go for us?” (Is 6:8)" From this one can imply that God had given some preparation for the revelation of the relations within the one God.

Lastly, we can look at the knowledge of Mary in itself. We know that one of the effects of original sin was a darkening of the intellect. Now the holy Virgin was without sin, neither original or actual sin. Therefore she was endowed with a perfect intellect and all of the graces necessary for her exalted role as the Mother of God. What was hidden from men in the sacred scriptures, especially with regard to the virginal conception, could have been comprehended by her whom we call the Seat of Wisdom. To what degree she understood all that God revealed through the Law and the Prophets, I cannot say. But we can say that being free of any corruption in her rational faculties and enjoying the immense help of the fullness of grace, she would have comprehended more than we can imagine. This would include all that the Holy Spirit intended to reveal about Himself to Mary, His spouse, through the Sacred Scriptures.

I hope this was helpful. All for the Immaculata,
Fr. Flum
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Q: Dear Father Larry, I noticed during mass when the priest says "Jesus Christ" the priest will bow his head. I also saw one of the women during the Night of Recollection bow her head every time we said "fruit of thy womb Jesus". I assume it is a sign of respect - but don't know for sure. Can you explain why we are doing this and when we are supposed to do it?

A: Dear Parishioner, In the Instructions for how and what we are to do during the Mass, which is a document called the GIRM (General Instruction of the Roman Missal) It says in point 275: "A bow of the head is made when the three Divine Persons are named together and at the names of Jesus, of the Blessed Virgin Mary, and of the Saint in whose honor Mass is being celebrated."

This tradition is based on St. Paul’s letter to the Philippians 2:9-10: “God greatly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every other name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bend … and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord ….”

In Christ,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry - please accept this input which I just filled out on my survey for trying to communicate with Financial peace university online. This class was not registered properly with the Dave Ramsey people, and when we try to call them for help with our homework - they have no idea classes are being taught at Sacred Heart. Please straighten this out.

A: Thank you for bringing this up. In the future we need to do a better job making sure that our class is properly connected and advertised better.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Fr. Larry, What do the titles (Pastor and Parochial Vicar) after your and Fr. Flum's names on the bulletin mean. Thank you.

A: Dear Parishioner, A parochial vicar is an assistant to the Pastor. Fr. Flum is my assistant to help me administer the Holy Sacraments and teach the parishioners the faith. A pastor is the head of the parish sent by the bishop that is responsible for the spiritual and material well being of the parish. Please pray for us both!

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry--What is the Church's stance on euthanasia of a sick pet?

I have a kitty who is 16..."Whiskers" He is diabetic and on insulin injections twice a day. He is also given twice daily medication for hyperthyroidism. He has had blood in his urine for months and diagnosed with bladder cancer 2 weeks ago. He has lost 2 pounds in the last 2 weeks. On the flip side, he is a momma's boy and still loves to be held and petted. He purrs easily and is eating and as active as a 16 kitty can be. The vet has already had the "quality of life talk" with me.

A: Dear parishioner, I am sorry for your cat. Euthanasia is forbidden by the fifth commandment for human beings. There is not so with animals that may be killed for various reasons...One being the are suffering. Here is a good article:
http://catholicexchange.com/is-it-okay-to-euthanize-my-pet

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry--When it comes to hearing Jesus, I have heard Him in the homilies of priests or deacons, or in the voice of another. I have also been told that you can hear Jesus if you are very quiet. I have not mastered that. How can I learn to hear Jesus myself in the quiet?

A: Dear Parishioner, God speaks in different ways. He obviously speaks to us in Scripture, The Holy teachings of the Church. Our Lord also speaks to us in prayer. Read how St. Thérèse of Lisieux tells us how she listened to the voice of God. “I know and have experienced that ‘the Kingdom of God is within us,’ that our Master has no need of books or teacher to instruct a soul. The Teacher of teachers instructs without sound of words, and though I have never heard Him speak, yet I know He is within me, always guiding and inspiring me; and just when I need them, lights, hitherto unseen, break in upon me. As a rule, it is not during prayer that this happens, but in the midst of my daily duties.”

When we pray we notice God speaking to us through the events of our lives..

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father--I would like to know why there are not more people giving out communion at the 9:00 and 11:30 Masses on Sunday? Even on Easter there were only 4 people which seemed way too few. Thank you

A: Dear Parishioner, Thank you for your question.  This article describes the conditions when a priest ought to increase the amount of Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion. https://www.ewtn.com/library/Liturgy/EXTRMIN.HTM

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father--What is the most effective way you have found to evangelize our Catholic faith to our Protestant brothers and sister's who believe they are saved once and for all?

A: Dear parishioner--Sacred scripture! The bible is loaded with quotations that would contradict this. Statement. The following article by Tim Staples articulates how one can dismantle the "Once saved always saved" heresy. http://www.catholic.com/magazine/articles/are-you-saved-if-on

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father--I attended the 11:30 Mass yesterday with the surprise appearance by His Eminence. Why didn't he have a crosier?

A: Dear parishioner--Only active bishops use the crosier in their diocese. He is retired therefore he would not use one.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father Larry: Do you believe a person can be a good, moral person, lead a justified life, be loved by God and go to heaven, without being Catholic and receiving the Sacraments?

A: Dear parishioner, the following article answers this question well:
http://www.catholic.com/magazine/articles/what-no-salvation-outside-the-church-means

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q : Dear Father-- I had a vasectomy in my late 20s when I was away from the Church. When I came back to the Church in my 40s I confessed this sin, said my Penance. I still feel that I am sinning every time I have relations with my wife since due to the procedure, it is not open to life. True or false?

A: Dear parishioner, our Lord is very merciful and forgave your sin when you confessed the sin of being sterilized. The church encourages, yet does not oblige a man to have a reversal which is sometimes not possible. Yet, your relations are not sinful since you have repented. I know a few guys that have sought vasectomy reversals and are very filled with joy that they did so. The best in the business is the following:
http://www.vas-reversals.com/?gclid=CKOTwbKolswCFUQ9gQod30EMag

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Hello Father Larry! I love to sing the hymns at mass, but often the numbers aren't on the board. Alas, the cantor announces the number, but the organist/pianist has charged into the song while I'm still fumbling with the hymnal. Looking around, I see my fellow parishioners in the same boat as me. Is there any way that the organist could play a short musical introduction (maybe 15 seconds) before the singing begins?

A: An easier solution to this problem is to set up a hymn board that posts the numbers of all the hymns. This is an easy fix for people to know what hymn is being sung.

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry--why in some parishes CCD / PSR classes are mandatory and the child would not be allowed to receive the sacrament but in some parishes they are not concerned with the attendance?

A: Canon Law states that: ...for the licit reception of Confirmation, however, a confirmand must also be "suitably instructed, properly disposed, and able to renew one's baptismal promises" (Canon 889 § 2).

A good pastor would see that those who are receiving the sacraments know what they are doing and are properly living what they are about to receive. I think, unfortunately that some pastors care more for the souls preparing for the sacraments than others. I think it is a shame that certain pastors do not look after their people and administer the sacraments without proper preparation. It would be like giving a teenager a driving license without having them go through driver's education.

Peace.
Fr. Larry
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Q: Dear Father Larry--Beyond prayer and gentle invitation, how can we get non-practicing Catholics to come back to the Church? (It is sad when friends and family members who were once so active in the Church, now simply feel the need to live moral lives, not spiritual ones!)

A: This is a golden question that cannot be answered completely In one response. I think the problem is many Catholics are "too gentle" when speaking of the faith that it never provokes a response. Too many today have fallen into the belief that it "All roads lead to Heaven". Many of the young I do not think believe In the existence of Hell or see the necessity of the sacraments and Holy Mother Church. What do we do?

First, we need to make sure that we are 100% Catholic and practice what we preach. We have to witness to the faith by our words and deeds. Second we need to answer their questions with good solid, Biblical, magisterial teaching that makes sense and say it in a way that they understand. Give them CDs, podcasts and books that are rooted in truth to help them grasp where they lack understanding. Third, invite them to go to confession. (you go and ask if they would go with you). In the Gospel with the Samaritan woman Jesus gets her to discuss her sin. Many times a person will say the Catholic Church is not right for them because they are tied up in sin. You can't fill a jug with water if it is filled with mud. A soul is many times just a confession away from a whole new life in Christ. Finally, offer up little sacrifices for their conversion, i.e., don't eat between meals, take a cold shower, or go a day without sweets. Jesus says "certain demons can only be dealt with prayer and fasting."

Peace,
Fr. Larry
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Q: Father--Why do you place your elbows on the altar when reciting the part of the eucharistic prayer...do this in remembrance of me?

A: In the Tridentine Mass (Extraordinary Form) the priest would place his forearms on the altar to remind himself that the mass and Calvary are one and the same sacrifice. It signifies being united to the cross at Calvary where Jesus gave His body for our salvation. This is re-presented as the body and blood of Jesus is offered to the Father as an unbloody sacrifice for mankind.

Peace,
Fr. Larry